How to Help a Child Find Themselves Again

How to Help a Child Find Themselves Again You are sitting on the edge of your daughter’s bed. It is late – past bedtime, past the time when either of you should be having this conversation. But here you are. She has been crying, and now she is doing that thing children do after they […]

How to Create a Home Where Your Child Can Be Themselves

How to Create a Home Where Your Child Can Be Themselves It is a Tuesday evening and your son is sitting at the kitchen table, not eating. He is pushing pasta around his plate with his fork, making small circles, and you know something happened today but he is not talking. You ask once, gently. […]

How to Raise a Child Who Knows Who They Are

How to Raise a Child Who Knows Who They Are Your daughter is standing in front of the bathroom mirror. She is nine years old. She is holding a hairbrush in one hand and her phone in the other, and she is tilting her head to the side the way she saw a girl do […]